Do I go ?

[AndyR]

I'm with the people saying no as well - I just wouldn't feel right being there.

(Of course, I ought to point out that I hate weddings anyway, if I could have got out of mine and still got married I would have done! )

[Greeny]

I'd have to say 'no way' on this one. I'm very suprised you were invited in the first place! You can take it as a message of peace and your ex just being friendly, or a message of "come and see how happy I am without you!".

Either way, I'd steer clear and spend the money you would have spent on a present on a bottle of Jack Daniels or a new effects pedal. Lol.

[Sprocket]

Let me be the one to say "Id GO!"
Seriously, if shes dumb enough to invite you, then go.
In my opinion shes trying to get to you, or to make herself feel better.
And moving around the corner from you...Id certainly go.
You said youd moved on, does this mean with a new mate? If so bring her!
If not, then go and bang one of her bridesmaids...but make it a good shag, so good that her friend will be talking about you for weeks, months or even years.

Id go for the free food and booze(and loose women)...then give a toast to the bride and groom!
WTF was she thinking?

[Bluesberry]

If you do go, make sure you write a song about the experience!!!!!

[Bro]

I might not be the most experienced to answer this question, but I'll have a go.

I think it depends how good friends you guys are, if you don't really talk than just show up and enjoy the free alcohol, and than just bring some shit of a present or something. On the other hand it could easily get pretty weird.
Really i'd go, say congrats, and get drunk and have a good time!

[launched]

Let me be the one to say "Id GO!"
Seriously, if shes dumb enough to invite you, then go.
In my opinion shes trying to get to you, or to make herself feel better.
And moving around the corner from you...Id certainly go.
You said youd moved on, does this mean with a new mate? If so bring her!
If not, then go and bang one of her bridesmaids...but make it a good shag, so good that her friend will be talking about you for weeks, months or even years.

Id go for the free food and booze(and loose women)...then give a toast to the bride and groom!
WTF was she thinking?

Finally someone agrees with me! And, if they are living up the road, you need to keep the peace. What if you need to borrow a torque wrench or something?



I can't comment on the bridesmaid thing, cause, you know...

Mark


Oh yeah, and like BB said - write a song about it afterwards...

[OsCKilO]

Hell No!!!!!!!!

[OsCKilO]

With the mix of Booze, feelings and the old "was he as good as me syndrome" on the part of the groom, shit could happen...





Or you could end up balls deep again, and that would just be too much for everybody to handle....

[Sprocket]

With the mix of Booze, feelings and the old "was he as good as me syndrome" on the part of the groom, shit could happen...


Or you could end up balls deep again, and that would just be too much for everybody to handle....

Ah, its the grooms wedding...if he wants to ruin his own wedding day then let him, "Migs certainly wouldnt have done that." All the more reason to go.

Hehe, you said "balls deep", like it would be a bad thing. 
No commitment, she lives around the corner, house calls could be possible...

Of course Im kidding(kinda) but in all seriousness...as a 36 y.o. Id go, Id go and Id make the best of whatever should happen, and have a great time.
Launched makes good positive points about her living near by...and she did invite you, and probably for good reason...youre probably a really good guy.

Who knows, maybe there will be an ex-boyfriends section you can sit in and you all can compair notes and do a lil color commentary between eachother...kinda "Mystery Science Theater" meets "Silent Library".

Once again, I think you should go...no matter what happens you will have a great time. And good things will come of it.
 
[edit]If it was my ex wife's wedding...Id certainly pass, but would wipe the RSVP with my ass...just to let her know I wouldnt be attending. 

[OsCKilO]

"Balls deep" can be a very bad place sometimes....

Just watch out for CCTV......








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