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Title: My worst month ever.
Post by: Groundy on August 04, 2021, 01:01:36 PM
Playing catch up again, last month was the worst month i have ever had, my daughter Debbie moved to Australia with her son a couple of years ago, I recently got a call from her telling me she had cancer, some years ago I went to New Zealand when our Bridgette got cancer she is still getting treatment after 10 years she has been phoning Debbie to help her through it, when we got a call that she had been to the hospital for a check up and she is in a bad way they have given her months it has now got into her bones, to top it all y youngest girl Michelle contacted us she went for a check up only to find she had the start of it but lucky enough they said they hsve found it early enough, the thing is she has not told her sisters abroad because she said they have enough to worry about tbemselves, I just cant believe it, speak soon... Cheers... Alex
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Post by: 64Guitars on August 04, 2021, 01:13:44 PM
Sorry to hear that Alex. It's a lot to deal with in one month. You must be beside yourself.

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Post by: Mach on August 04, 2021, 01:25:07 PM
Hi Alex,

Sorry to hear this bad news. Your family is in our thoughts during this trying time.

All the best,
Mach
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Post by: Groundy on August 04, 2021, 01:35:36 PM
Thanks 64, thanks, Mach... Alex
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Post by: Greeny on August 04, 2021, 01:44:55 PM
That's rough, Alex. So sorry that life is putting you and your family through the wringer. Stay strong my friend - sending you best wishes.
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Post by: pjd1 on August 04, 2021, 01:54:42 PM
Thats Horrible Alex i am thinking about you mate , stay strong and look after yourself

Dunny
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Post by: cuthbert on August 04, 2021, 02:02:27 PM
Sorry to read the news, Alex - wishing all the best for your family and yourself. Take care, my friend.
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Post by: Oldrottenhead on August 04, 2021, 02:34:07 PM
Thinking of you and your Alex.
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Post by: Mike_S on August 04, 2021, 02:58:19 PM
Sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers your way Alex. Stay as strong as you can.

Mike
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Post by: The Gobi Desert Canoe Club on August 04, 2021, 03:19:11 PM
Hi Alex, so sorry to hear your news, sometimes life has the habit of kicking you when you're down. I shall keep you in my thoughts.       Willie
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Post by: thetworegs on August 04, 2021, 04:00:51 PM
so sorry to hear that Alex my heart goes out to you
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Post by: Farrell Jackson on August 04, 2021, 04:43:55 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that Alex. We will be sending positive thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Farrell
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Post by: TPB on August 04, 2021, 07:12:01 PM
You will be on my thoughts and payers brother
Tim
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Post by: Groundy on August 04, 2021, 10:57:43 PM
Many thanks everyone... Alex
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Post by: chapperz66 on August 05, 2021, 03:22:15 AM
So sorry to hear this. You are in my thoughts, not least as I have had a brush with cancer.  All any of us can do is stay strong and positive . And look after yourself.
Paul
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Post by: Pete C on August 05, 2021, 04:57:12 AM
So sorry to hear this Alex - my thoughts are with you at this difficult time

Pete
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Post by: Redler on August 05, 2021, 04:58:24 AM
Sorry to hear that, Alex. All the best to you.
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Post by: alfstone on August 05, 2021, 11:59:27 AM
Alex, my friend...I am near you.

Alfredo
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Post by: kenny mac on August 05, 2021, 12:11:13 PM
So very sorry to hear your news Alex,thats so heartbreaking.
my warmest thoughts to all your family.
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Post by: Zoltan on August 05, 2021, 12:54:55 PM
Sorry to hear :( All the best to you and your family.
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Post by: Groundy on August 05, 2021, 01:05:18 PM
Many thanks gang... Alex
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Post by: maxit on August 05, 2021, 01:30:05 PM
I'm so sorry Alex ... dont know what to say except sending you a big hug, hold on ...
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Post by: Ella on August 05, 2021, 01:58:22 PM
Terrible to hear how hard times you are living now. I am so sorry. Hope our warm thoughts helps you a little.
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Post by: Hilary on August 05, 2021, 01:58:51 PM
Sorry to hear this Alex, sending you and your family love and prayers xx
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Post by: SE on August 05, 2021, 11:57:11 PM
Sorry to here your news it must be terrible to have any of your children  ill, I can only imagine, all the best thinking of you and family,   John
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Post by: Ferryman on August 06, 2021, 02:22:10 AM
So sorry to hear this Alex. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Post by: Ted on August 06, 2021, 04:59:45 AM
That is rough. You know, evidently, that this obscure little forum is a place where you can reach out if you need too. My thoughts are with you.
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Post by: Groundy on August 06, 2021, 11:12:44 AM
Thank you all so much for your kind words, much appreciated... Alex
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Post by: StephenM on August 07, 2021, 01:48:06 AM
I can't think of anything to say that might help.  I would say though thank you for sharing this with us.  It cannot be easy.  I got a call the other day from a friend I see as often as I can who has been in a wheel chair for 20 years and is in constant pain.  He told me it was goodbye and that he was going to end his life.  I didn't know what to say then either.  But I did say that I would miss him, that I love him, and that I wish he wouldn't, but I understood why he felt that way. 
I lost my sister to cancer 9 years ago, she was 60 though...it was still hard. 
you and your family are in my thoughts, prayers, and best hopes.
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Post by: Pine on August 07, 2021, 08:27:29 AM
Life is so fragile. Devastating when things like cancer hit those you love. Lost my brother to it a few years back. All you can do is be supportive and hope for remission. I feel for ya Alex. Hang in there buddy.
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Post by: Kenneth on August 09, 2021, 05:27:37 PM
Oh man. I'm so sorry Alex. I feel for you.
My brother in law has a brain tumor. He goes in for surgery Wednesday. It's tough, hang in there.
I
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Post by: Geir on August 10, 2021, 05:44:48 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that Alex. My thoughts are with you.
Hoping for the best. Stay strong!
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Post by: Groundy on November 06, 2021, 11:17:53 PM
Tears of joy this month, Michelle, my youngest has had all her cancer cells
 removed she is doing well must have a check up in 6 Months.
My Daughter in Australia got the all clear yesterday, she has had quite a rough few months, she was well looked after being a nurse.
Poor Bridgette is still battling on they keep trying new things on her, the downside it is in her bones now, but she is a fighter, were getting there..... Alex
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Post by: StephenM on November 07, 2021, 03:58:17 AM
happy to hear your good news Alex...I can only imagine what you have been going through...
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Post by: guitarron on November 07, 2021, 05:21:29 AM
Thats terrific news. All the best to you and your family
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Post by: dasilvasings on November 07, 2021, 08:41:25 AM
Thank you for sharing the good news!
My thoughts are for Bridgette, may she find all the strength she needs now.

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Post by: Oldrottenhead on November 07, 2021, 09:13:20 AM
my thoughts are with you and yours Alex.
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Post by: Mike_S on November 07, 2021, 04:14:25 PM
Great to hear some good news Alex, sending more positive vibes your way

Mike
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Post by: Groundy on November 07, 2021, 10:31:29 PM
Thanks everyone, means a lot.... Alex
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Post by: Jean Pierre on November 07, 2021, 11:46:07 PM
Alex, my friend, your firstmessage had escaped me, as well as the following response of ampathy from our colleagues on SC
and I'm glad to hear the latest news which is more positive...all my thoughts are with you and your family, who are so far away from you.
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Post by: Geir on November 08, 2021, 05:15:26 AM
Glad you've got some good news !!

Keep strong my friend. You are still in my thoughts.

Geir
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Post by: Zoltan on November 08, 2021, 07:58:15 AM
Great to hear some good news! Lots of positive vibes to you and yours!
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Post by: Ferryman on November 08, 2021, 12:19:56 PM
Good news indeed Alex, thanks for sharing. Sending positive thoughts to you and yours.
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Post by: Pine on November 08, 2021, 02:50:12 PM
So much easier to handle sickness when it happens to you rather than those you love. Sure hope things continue to improve. Life is no sleigh ride, that's for sure. Hang in there buddy.
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Post by: cuthbert on November 08, 2021, 03:04:35 PM
Glad to hear there's good news, Alex. Best wishes to you and your family.
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Post by: alfstone on November 08, 2021, 03:43:12 PM
We all hope to receive from you very good news quite soon!

Alfredo
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Post by: Groundy on November 09, 2021, 01:05:11 AM
Thanks Gang, appreciated....
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Post by: bruno on November 09, 2021, 03:08:55 AM
Just seen this. As any father would, we feel your pain and your joy. I hope for the best possible outcomes for all your family. Stay strong.
B
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Post by: Blooby on November 10, 2021, 01:18:19 PM

Very happy for the latest news. My thoughts are with you.

Bruce

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Post by: BerryPatch on November 12, 2021, 05:49:44 PM
Very happy to hear about the good news, I wish you and your family all the best!
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Post by: chapperz66 on November 12, 2021, 11:34:58 PM
I'm so glad to hear you have good news.
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Post by: Greeny on November 13, 2021, 03:39:47 AM
I'm a bit late, but so glad you got some good news Alex. Very best wishes.
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Post by: launched on December 21, 2021, 08:16:46 PM
Hi Alex, just reading through this and sorry to hear of your family troubles. Glad to hear of the recoveries and truly hope all are well soon.

Mark